Lola Jane Thorne: Writing

An exploration of how childhood control and people-pleasing behaviours affect adult relationships: discover steps to reclaim inner peace

Rejecting joy is a specific form of self-sabotage. It is messy and crosses over many self-sabotaging behaviour and self-limiting beliefs,...

I had learnt to stop asking for my needs to be met until every so often I would burst from holding them in, I would feel shame and guilt.